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About Mistress Audry Lu Black

Her Story

Mistress Audry Lu Black is a professional dominatrix, sex educator, intimacy consultant, and upcoming author. With 25 years of experience using consensual behavioral modification to unlock transformative self-awareness, she merges erotic power exchange with academic insight and radical compassion.

Mistress Audry Lu Black is an unapologetic poetry addict and a sometimes oil painter who enjoys making a gorgeous mess with color, texture, and whatever canvas is unlucky enough to cross her path. A lifelong Star Trek nerd, she once spent an entire weekend explaining the moral philosophy of Captain Picard to a bound and gagged professor (he still thanks her for it). Her five-year plan involves a castle in France—preferably with high towers for watching birds of prey with the same analytical intensity she brings to human behavior, or for standing outside like a gothic weather vane, drinking tea (preferably dark and over-steeped, served in chipped mugs that look like they’ve witnessed unspeakable things) and letting the scent of petrichor wrap around her like a favorite poem. Dungeon space is, of course, non-negotiable—along with very bad Wi-Fi for misbehaving subs.

What is She Doing Now?

She currently teaches workshops on kink skills and negotiation, and works with clients one-on-one to work towards individual goals. A seasoned speaker with 15+ years on stage, Audry delivers electrifying, intelligent, and deeply personal talks that challenge audiences to rethink sex, shame, consent, and selfhood. Her lectures blend storytelling, philosophy, practical tools, and emotional truth – rooted in lived experience and fiercely grounded in ethical, person-centered care.

She is also working on a book on the dynamic intersectional relationship between psychology, philosophy, and kink. The book concentrates on utilizing stoic and cognitive behavioral therapeutic techniques to examine epicurean experiences.

Driven by Values & Results

  • a book lying open, pages splayed like a rainbow with "M. Lu has provided a platform which challenges me to lead a better and altogether healthier lifestyle. Her methods leave you feeling fulfilled and happier as a result. Would highly recommend!” - Mr. D
  • Hands holding a callalily with "M. Lu offers an extraordinary service that transcends traditional self-improvement methods. Her intellectual growth program is an invigorating challenge that masterfully blends mental acuity with deep emotional exploration. For those like me who struggle with their position on the Dunning-Kruger graph, her guidance is transformative, unlocking my untapped potential and relieving me of my persistent self-doubt.” - Mr. R
  • Hand holding a key with "With her no nonsense approach, [M. Lu] sets high standards and expects a lot in terms of engagement but her techniques have consistently yielded results that speak for themselves. Have thoroughly enjoyed the process.” - Mr. W